》Electric forces《

Johanna Hämäläinen
Oct 30
3 min read

"In the world of quantum physics, the rules that govern reality behave in ways that challenge what we think we know."

On this later.

Relationship: opposites attract > ♡ <

Friends: likeness attract > ☆ <

• Opposites attract like a magnet to a fridge

--> there comes the Coulomb's law and the quantum physics (particularly quantum entanglement) at play. I know those things might be a lot for the weekend, but trust me; relevant.

• Friendship: One headline says it's down right dangerous to hang out with like-minded people, while the other is boosting about how you should surround yourself with like-minded people.

In my opinion, enough close likeness usually where people, and myself, gravitate toward. Still, as you know, some of them require lots of patience, or simply cut offs as you're cleaning your friend list.

⚡️In physics (have to do this: sorry in advance!),

I personally view friends like two people of the same charge: it can be two positive charges pulling one another closer. Really they would repel each other.

That's why in friendships☆ it works, but not in relationships♡. Although it's not set in stone! If two people, who are very similar even to the same jobs and still find it working, then good for you! You're a gem..bun intended.

"Yes, we are naturally drawn to people with similar personalities or people who have a certain “look,” but it’s not written in stone anywhere that you’re supposed to date a specific “type.”

You might view choosing your total opposite as a huge risk because you’ve never tried to make it work but what if they made you the happiest person in the world? How would you know if you didn’t give it a chance?

Here are 7 ways to help you make it work with your total opposite:

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7. Prepare For Change

"Have you ever experienced how in a meeting with like-minded people things are easier for you? Are you more relaxed and in a pleasant and good mood? In these meetings, ideas start to flow and everybody is opening up and being enthusiastic. You literally can feel the power of being with like-minded people. A feeling of being uplifted and empowered can stay with you for quite a while.

You may have already experienced the power of a meeting with like-minded people. Although you may not be directly aware of the power these connections can have.

What holds you back?

It is often difficult to do what you really want if you have a goal or a dream. There may be people around you who hold you back or discourage you if you share your dreams and goals with them.

Many do not even dare to dream. Slogans like fear, failure and mistakes are used everywhere to hold people back. No wonder that many are scared even to start what they would like to do most. Starting something which is unusual in our society considers crazy and dangerous."

✨️"The relationship that tests/frustrates/irritates you the most actually is one of your greatest blessings. Why? Because it reveals to you the very beliefs/fears and false assumptions that most limit you."✨️

Robin Sharma

⚡️"According to Coulomb, the electric force for charges at rest has the following properties:

Like charges repel each other; unlike charges attract. Thus, two negative charges repel one another, while a positive charge attracts a negative charge. "

"Quantum entanglement is one of the uber-bizarre phenomena seen when things get itty-bitty, or inside the quantum realm. When two or more particles link up in a certain way, no matter how far apart they are in space, their states remain linked."